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Coronan · 08-01-2011

Sorry, that last statement ticks me off.

Almost everyone is a victim of abusive language, behaviour, bigotry or just generally bullying at some point in their life. How you choose do deal with it is your own choice.

I'm a white, heterosexual Scottish male in his late 20's. The rest of my family married into english families and live down south. I go down there and I get abuse because our money looks slightly different, I 'talk funny' because my accent isn't english. It's racism pure and simple.

I've met 70 year old women who carry scars from being bullied in school. African-Americans who complained that as a 'whitey' I had it easy until I pointed out that my entire nation was subject to several attempts to breed us/wipe us/force us out by our next door neighbours. I work with children whose parents have given - not been forced to give, mind - them up into care. That fucks them up, probably for the rest of their life.

Compared to that, getting all high & mighty because someone uses a word in common circulation to describe you that you find offensive seems a little weak.

Realistically, I get called a wanky ginger jock bastard almost every day, because I'm scottish and have a ginger beard lol. So the fuck what? Does that mean I run up to them and go "That is OUR word!" NO! Of course not! I just call them a bunch of sassanach engercunts and get on with my day.

So, my point is this:

DO NOT EVER PRESUME THAT SOMEONE ELSE IS UNAWARE OF WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE A VICTIM OF PREJUDICE, INTOLERANCE, HATRED OR ANYTHING ELSE THAT YOU FEEL SOMEHOW MAKES YOU SPECIAL.

To do otherwise is just to be a narrow-minded self-centred arrogant asshole who presumes that because they feel that they are in some way different to other folk that they are automatically persecuted. Most folk I know couldn't give a rats ass what you do in your free time, as long as you do what you're paid to do when you're meant to lol.

...seriously ticks me right the fuck off... does it show?

08-01-2011	#24
Coronan Lurker Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 13	Re: Something that is not often factored in to BE Sorry, that last statement ticks me off. Almost everyone is a victim of abusive language, behaviour, bigotry or just generally bullying at some point in their life. How you choose do deal with it is your own choice. I'm a white, heterosexual Scottish male in his late 20's. The rest of my family married into english families and live down south. I go down there and I get abuse because our money looks slightly different, I 'talk funny' because my accent isn't english. It's racism pure and simple. I've met 70 year old women who carry scars from being bullied in school. African-Americans who complained that as a 'whitey' I had it easy until I pointed out that my entire nation was subject to several attempts to breed us/wipe us/force us out by our next door neighbours. I work with children whose parents have given - not been forced to give, mind - them up into care. That fucks them up, probably for the rest of their life. Compared to that, getting all high & mighty because someone uses a word in common circulation to describe you that you find offensive seems a little weak. Realistically, I get called a wanky ginger jock bastard almost every day, because I'm scottish and have a ginger beard lol. So the fuck what? Does that mean I run up to them and go "That is OUR word!" NO! Of course not! I just call them a bunch of sassanach engercunts and get on with my day. So, my point is this: DO NOT EVER PRESUME THAT SOMEONE ELSE IS UNAWARE OF WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE A VICTIM OF PREJUDICE, INTOLERANCE, HATRED OR ANYTHING ELSE THAT YOU FEEL SOMEHOW MAKES YOU SPECIAL. To do otherwise is just to be a narrow-minded self-centred arrogant asshole who presumes that because they feel that they are in some way different to other folk that they are automatically persecuted. Most folk I know couldn't give a rats ass what you do in your free time, as long as you do what you're paid to do when you're meant to lol. ...seriously ticks me right the fuck off... does it show?