While the whacked-out and kinda arbitrary censorship standards in this country do suck a big one, sadly, that's the market you're working in. I feel your pain, and it sucks there's not much content producers can do about it...
Edit: What really bugs me is how truly, bizarrely arbitrary it really is. I see descriptions on c4s all the time that say things like 'bl0*d,' 'm0m-my,' 'd3-th,'etc and any idiot can tell what they're really saying, but for some reason that's fine. Go figure.